9 golden tips on becoming a burlesque performer

Fay, darling, tell me, how did you become a Burlesque star?

Funny you ask Rosie, may I call you that? Many people ask me this and it’s quite a story. I was 16 years old when I was introduced to burlesque for the first time at a party in Amsterdam. I knew right away, this is what I want to do, be a professional burlesque artist. And I made it happen! Since then, I grew out to be an international artist, worked with hundreds of inspiring people and keep inventing new shows every once in a while.

One of my first professional performances  2010

Hold up, where was this party? Sounds like I should have been there.

Indeed Rosie, you missed the party of the year. It was 2007, I was 16 years young and it was one of the first burlesque parties in Amsterdam. I didn’t know anything about burlesque I just really liked the flyer. And as soon as I walked in the place I was sold! Everyone was beautifully dressed in 1950 style, gorgeous strong girls were performing and the music was uplifting. I knew I had to become one of these girls and I started looking for the producer. I told him: ‘I want to get on that stage and you need to help me.’ He started laughing and told me that it was impossible for a 16-year-old girl to start a career as a burlesque performer. I didn’t see the problem and kept convincing him to help me. So we exchanged email addresses.

Baby Fay with Daisy Lee at 2009

A few days later our house telephone rang, it was Marco, the burlesque producer. I was a little in shock because I couldn’t remember giving him my phone number. But then he told me that his friends had a baby around 16 years ago and named her Fay! And yes, you guessed it, that was me. From that moment on he started helping me to get into the very small burlesque scene in Amsterdam. And my parents were fine with it because they knew and trusted him. Of course I had to wait till I was 18 to legally perform so I had some time to prepare myself.

Fay Loren en Sophie Roos 2007. Yes I’m the one with dark hair!

Geee I’m impressed such a young cat and so much guts! Of course I already know how to conquer the world of burlesque but how did you prepare yourself?

Haha I’m so humbled hearing that from you Rosie, you were and still are one of my biggest inspirations. First off let me start by telling that burlesque is for all ages, colors, genders and sizes. It doesn’t matter who you are, just that you like to entertain. These are the tips I would give anyone wanting to start a career as a performer.

  1. Go watch a lot of shows

    Don’t only go to burlesque shows, also go to theatre plays, opera, dance performances etc.

  2. Read about the history of burlesque

    Start learning as much as you can about burlesque, this will also help you develop your own style.

  3. Take burlesque lessons and/or workshops

    Look for a burlesque school or take workshops. Besides learning burlesque you will meet likeminded people.

  4. Find your own signature style in burlesque

    There are so many different burlesque styles. Don’t be afraid to experiment.
    I’m specialized in classic burlesque. But there is so much more to do!

  5. Use your special skill

    Can you already sing, tap-dance or have any other skill? Use it at burlesque!

  6. Start as a stage kitten 

    A stage kitten is someone who prepares the stage for the next performer and cleans it again after. It’s a great way to learn about performing and getting to know other burlesque artists. I also worked as a stage kitten when I just started!

  7. Invest in your costumes 

    Invest time and money into creating your costumes. Make them yourself or buy something you can adjust to your own size and style. Make them stand out and unique!

  8. Don’t expect a very high payment when you’re just starting 

    At most events there are special fees for beginners and headliners.

  9. Have fun 

    The most important is that you have fun and feel confident.

Already a diva in 2009


My first publication in Blend I think this was 2008

A special thank you to Gypsy Rose Lee for finding the time in her busy life, performing her ass off up in burlesque heaven, to interview me.